tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1949425054295660529.post4247206342766488234..comments2024-03-27T06:22:50.868+01:00Comments on From My Mental Library: Am I Going Nuts?Librarianhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05704656564078750607noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1949425054295660529.post-57827847648734831112012-01-31T14:21:23.462+01:002012-01-31T14:21:23.462+01:00I guess you're right, Perl. Last time I was in...I guess you're right, Perl. Last time I was in London was 5 years ago, for 5 days, in occasion of my sister's 40th birthday. It was a great few days and we both enjoyed it very much, but we were quite knackered in the evenings and agreed that we would not want to live there (it is very different being on holiday somewhere or living and working there), unless we had piles of money and could afford enough living and breathing space. Not bloody likely!!Librarianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05704656564078750607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1949425054295660529.post-34838598950791386232012-01-31T12:46:41.045+01:002012-01-31T12:46:41.045+01:00Yeah, I was having this discussion about London at...Yeah, I was having this discussion about London at the weekend. It seems that qutie a few people concurred with me that shopping there, or even just being there a few days, leaves one strangely exhausted. I think this must be down to the effort of constantly processing stimuli about scenery, crowds and individuals. Our Pliocene brains aren't really geared up for that since they evolved to live with generally about 150 to 300 individuals. I guess if you live in Lndon, you learn to zone out and let less information in.Perlnumquisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13719930860859412405noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1949425054295660529.post-40702989402318046902012-01-31T09:28:53.995+01:002012-01-31T09:28:53.995+01:00Mmmmm but I like crackers, SP! ;-)Mmmmm but I like crackers, SP! ;-)Librarianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05704656564078750607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1949425054295660529.post-21974425329436927642012-01-31T09:04:34.637+01:002012-01-31T09:04:34.637+01:00"Switch into crowd mode"
That's wha..."Switch into crowd mode"<br /><br />That's what I do when I have to go shopping in England...I'm just not used to the noise, hustle and bustle anymore, so I brace myself before I go.<br /><br />Trust me, you're not going crackers.<br /><br />SPAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1949425054295660529.post-12488196685525518882012-01-31T06:51:39.420+01:002012-01-31T06:51:39.420+01:00Indeed, Kay, it is getting more and more interesti...Indeed, Kay, it is getting more and more interesting and colourful, this life, doesn't it! And if going nuts is the price to pay for that, then so be it - a little nuttiness befits a Librarian, doesn't it? ;-)<br /><br />GB, my tolerance threshold towards children is, I'm afraid, unreasonably low. I very well remember my own childhood and know that it is, for instance, impossible for a kid to walk up and down stairs without running, or to tell someone something important without starting to get that high-pitched, excited voice that is so penetrating. But remembering it from my own days does not mean I like it when others do the same, and therefore, I admire anyone who, like my sister-in-law or my mother, work with children - and enjoy it!Librarianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05704656564078750607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1949425054295660529.post-32368351937924172762012-01-31T05:44:36.234+01:002012-01-31T05:44:36.234+01:00Are you going nuts? No! 'Cos if you are so a...Are you going nuts? No! 'Cos if you are so am I and I'm not. I can cope with crowds when I'm detached from them but when, for example, the children all start shouting for this and that at the same time and there are other conflicting things (like someone leaving a TV on!!!) then I react as you did on this occasion. I see that as a perfectly natural response to something which I find anathema. I suspect that however much you felt it wasn't affecting you at a rational level your sub-conscious found it anathema and rebelled.GBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10289400344300258872noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1949425054295660529.post-13718197710099661212012-01-30T23:11:47.859+01:002012-01-30T23:11:47.859+01:00Librarian,
I think you're going nuts.
JUST KID...Librarian,<br />I think you're going nuts.<br />JUST KIDDING!!!<br />You do not want to know how I would have reacted. I think it is possible that I might be on that autism spectrum that PerlNumquist mentioned above, and I am getting older at the same time. Life just keeps getting more interesting...Kay G.https://www.blogger.com/profile/07228498846814735537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1949425054295660529.post-79961193535297172642012-01-30T21:43:45.645+01:002012-01-30T21:43:45.645+01:00Jenny, my blood sugar level was alright as I had e...Jenny, my blood sugar level was alright as I had eaten a light lunch maybe 15 minutes before leaving the house. And there is quite some hustle and bustle on the streets in town centre on most working days around that time, so it wasn't really an unusual situation at all - which is why my reaction to it puzzled me all the more. Like I said, I probably simply had forgotten to switch mentally into crowd mode :-)<br />As for loud music in shops - I so agree on that! I have left shops without buying, even though they had things I would have liked, because of the terrible music they were having blasting from the speakers. Another time, my mum and I complained to the girl behind the counter and she was so happy we did that - she said that now that customers had said something, she was allowed to turn it down; when she wanted to turn it down on her own initiative, her superiors had forbidden it, convinced that this was what customers wanted.Librarianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05704656564078750607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1949425054295660529.post-60277064739419820632012-01-30T21:09:47.331+01:002012-01-30T21:09:47.331+01:00I bet your little town does not usually offer so m...I bet your little town does not usually offer so much sensory overload as you describe, that sounds more like a busy city street. There could be various reasons for it, all of them totally innocuous. Maybe your blood sugar was a bit low. I find that kind of thing happens occasionally to me if I haven't eaten for a while. It has also happened to me after being ill and.or kept inside for a few days, like after I had my kids and once when I injured my leg and couldn't go out. When I did get out, everything seemed to be happening at the same time in the way you describe. <br /><br />I don't think using the phone a lot has much to do with it. It's the physical thing of having lots of actual things happen at once, and having to respond physically. <br /><br />Human beings are not really designed for lots of abnormally fast moving things happening at once, although we learn to be pretty good at dealing with them most of the time. But just occasionally, it would be surprising if we were not thrown into momentary confusion. And so yes, it might be something to do with age, just a little bit, because it does get a bit harder to deal with sensory overload, like rough fairground rides, loud music in shops, etc. They just don't seem so exciting and fun in the way children and teenagers and even young adults find them.Jenny Woolfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16881781466502273314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1949425054295660529.post-6532462095802520872012-01-30T20:47:41.226+01:002012-01-30T20:47:41.226+01:00This comment has been removed by the author.Jenny Woolfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16881781466502273314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1949425054295660529.post-87045201753919600522012-01-30T20:10:22.546+01:002012-01-30T20:10:22.546+01:00Yes, Perl, cognitive overload pretty much sums it ...Yes, Perl, cognitive overload pretty much sums it up.<br />Glad you like the new layout! It was the most fitting one for my library theme among the standard ones offered by blogger.<br /><br />Ja, 12, genau so fängt's an!<br />11<br /><br />Julie, of course it was blogger when leaving comments was a problem - nothing to do with the settings on my blog :-) <br />What was so puzzling about the situation was that I usually do not lose my focus so easily. And I earn my money practically on the phone, therefore, it is a most welcome sound to hear it ring; during work hours because it means potentially business, and after work and on weekends it usually means a friend or family member, which is even more welcome.Librarianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05704656564078750607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1949425054295660529.post-48468037302269304902012-01-30T18:22:47.227+01:002012-01-30T18:22:47.227+01:00Yes, too much all at once. A rush of activity and ...Yes, too much all at once. A rush of activity and you lost your focus. But healthy you quickly adjusted and got on with your day. I have this problem when the phone rings. Sometimes I nearly jump straight up into the air, and sometimes I pick it up and sweetly say "Hello!" <br />xx<br />julie<br />p.s. Absolutely no problem leaving comments now , must have been blogger.<br />jJulie Whitmore Potteryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12283540996942265818noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1949425054295660529.post-85420134332519140542012-01-30T18:05:02.511+01:002012-01-30T18:05:02.511+01:00So fängts an... ;-)
12So fängts an... ;-)<br />12Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1949425054295660529.post-14726675833358502412012-01-30T17:27:44.798+01:002012-01-30T17:27:44.798+01:00Cognitive overload. Your brain was unable to decid...Cognitive overload. Your brain was unable to decide what was relevent and what could be fltered out. This is, so I understand it, how people on the autistic spectrum feel all the time.<br /><br />I like the new layout. I find it very relaxing to look at, all colourful there in my peripheral vision.Perlnumquisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13719930860859412405noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1949425054295660529.post-61247233542128066942012-01-30T17:14:41.526+01:002012-01-30T17:14:41.526+01:00Maggie, actually, I am not having a bad day at all...Maggie, actually, I am not having a bad day at all. That is why I was so puzzled by my own reaction to this! I last reacted like that to the outside world after I was released from hospital in September 2010.<br /><br />Oh I am glad you like the changes I have made to my blog, Jill!<br />The strange thing about this little incident is that I usually am of the opinion "The more, the merrier", and crodws leave me unfazed. So why was it different today? I really don't know!Librarianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05704656564078750607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1949425054295660529.post-81090355400943960562012-01-30T17:02:41.634+01:002012-01-30T17:02:41.634+01:00I completely understand what happened to you. I w...I completely understand what happened to you. I would have reacted the same and may have even have had a panic attack. I can no longer cope with crowds (even a few people for me is a crowd), noise, organized or disorganized chaos. Lucky for me I'm now retired and don't have to subject myself to the outside world except on market day when I go early in the morning, mid-week, to avoid people. If I were able to have my groceries delivered I'd never leave my nice, roomy, and QUIET home.<br />PS. I like the new font and love the darker print.Jillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11791018174075586241noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1949425054295660529.post-73414913571955839762012-01-30T16:08:09.780+01:002012-01-30T16:08:09.780+01:00Think you were just having a bad day. But going ou...Think you were just having a bad day. But going out every day sounds like a good idea as it's easy to get immersed in your own little world. You are lucky that you still have a mum to go shopping with.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com