Tuesday, 12 May 2026

The Last Four Days…

…before our wedding were sort of busy but not too much. Little had to be done in view of the wedding, but a few jobs in and around the house were in order to prepare for being away for a week.

Monday (4th of May) was overcast and a little cooler than Sunday, but it remained dry. Perfect for gardening, wich was what O.K. did practically all day. We had a snack around lunch time, and for the evening, I prepared a mix of vegetables to be fried; we ate that with hummus.

We went for some errands on Tuesday (5th of May) and later for a walk in the sun, followed by coffee and pastries on the balcony. Rain was coming up then, and lasted for much of the evening. We enjoyed a typical meal for this time of year: green asparagus (fried in the pan) with ham and a dry white wine.
The scent of this rose in the garden next door was as beautiful as the rose looks.
The long awaited and much needed ‚proper‘ rain finally arrived on Wednesday (6th of May). O.K. drove us into town for a few more things to do in readiness for our upcoming holiday. 
Neither of us fancied lunch in town, so we had a snack at home instead. I had a longish nap in the afternoon and later cooked couscous with what vegetables were still in the fridge and needed using before we‘d leave. We also did a last load of washing so that there would still be time to iron and pack some items for Saturday.

Thursday (7th of May) was our last day as an unmarried couple. It was chilly with sprinkles of rain, but by late afternoon, it was nice enough for a walk around the village before we retreated to the kitchen where we grabbed a frying pan each and fried another bunch of green asparagus in one and two bulbs of fennel, thinly sliced, in the other. We added plenty of spices and quite liked the result.

It being the eve of our wedding day, we then had an impromptu type of combined hen and stag party, just the two of us, playing our favourite songs quite loudly. (Don‘t worry, no neighbours came to any harm!)

My next post will be about the 8th of May, and yes, there will be pictures, but no, not of O.K. or anyone but myself. As a first glimpse, here are pictures of my two dresses, the headband I wore and my bridal bouquet:


25 comments:

  1. I'm so excited! Love your bouquet, headband and dresses! Can't wait to hear all about it!

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    1. It wasn‘t a „big do“, but still a big day for us.

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  2. It being the eve of our wedding ...

    What an evocative phrase, and perfect for early May.
    O.K. we are never to see.
    It is anyone's right to remain unphotographed. Too many Smartphone Pix today.

    We look forward to your next post.
    Gottes Segen sei mit dir.

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    1. Thank you, Jack.

      There are plenty of photos of O.K., he just does not want them published on my blog. And as you say, it‘s anyone‘s right, and of course I respect that.

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  3. Congratulations to you both and wishing you many years of happiness together xx

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  4. I imagine that you looked amazing ! Many congratulations
    Siobhan x

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    1. Thank you, Siobhan! I certainly felt amazing, and very happy!

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  5. Your bouquet, headband, and dresses are so beautiful! I can't wait to hear about the big day! And once again, congratulations to you both.

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  6. Beautiful bouquet and pretty headdress and outfits. I hope you had a wonderful day, and wish you and O.K. many happy years together.

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    1. Thank you, Janice! We did have a wonderful day, and I am looking forward to many more years together than the decade we already can look back on.

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  7. Glad to hear about the lead-up to the big day, and I love your spring-like dresses! We are seeing tons of asparagus on the menu here in Vienna. At the restaurant we went to last night, it was in literally almost every dish.

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    1. I didn‘t know how much into asparagus people are in Austria; here in Germany, it is the most popular vegetable of all. I am not all that keen on the classic white one, but the green one is great, and during the short time of year when they are available regionally, I like to get my fix.

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  8. Lovely! Wishing you and OK all the best.

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  9. This is exciting reading - and thank you for the preview of your flowers and dresses. You have made me hungry for asparagus - hope they have some at the farmer's market Friday, there was none last week which seemed odd.

    Cheers, Ceci

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    1. Hello Ceci, I hope you find asparagus at the market tomorrow. Because I only wanted green and not the white kind, I had to walk to the hut just outside the village four times - first they were sold out, then the promised delivery had not arrived, and finally on the fourth day the lady had set two bunches aside for me 😅

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  10. Best wishes for a beautiful life together!

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  11. Congratulations! ♥♥ I like the colours of your outfit, and look forward to more photos - even if not including the groom...

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    1. Thank you, dear Monica!
      Look at my newest post (just published) - you're in for a surprise :-D

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  12. I love that you had a quiet little week to yourselves before the big celebration. A 'do' does not need to be big to be lifechanging!

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    1. That is so true, Debbie! And at our age, we need more rest after a busy period at work - we‘re not 20 anymore… or 30… or 40 🤣

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