Monday, 31 December 2012

Two Paintings

This, post # 401, is my last blog post for 2012. I did not do a Fashion Calendar post for December, but I guess you can all live with that :-)
Maybe I'll do one in January, to show you what I will be wearing later tonight when RJ and I will be joining my parents and my sister for a glass of champagne to welcome 2013 in style. But for now, let me show you these two beautiful paintings:


They were done by my great-grandfather. He died when my Mum was still a little girl, so I had no chance of ever meeting him. He came originally from Silesia and settled in what eventually became our family's hometown, Ludwigsburg. I don't know neither what year he came here, nor what was the actual reason for the move, but I know what he did once he arrived: he worked as a porcelain painter at Ludwigsburg's own bone china manufactory. The manufactory is still working, still selling, still training artists, and my great-grandfather was one of them.
His art was, as you can see, not limited to working on china; he painted on canvas, on cardboard, on wood - whatever was available to him. If I remember correctly, my Mum once told me that sometimes he would pay for goods or services with a painting instead of money, so I assume there are several houses in Ludwigsburg where one can find a painting by my great-grandfather.

These two paintings were, as long as I can remember (and much longer than that), in my grandparents' house. They were beautifully displayed in a wall niche in the living room, and I've always known and loved them. Can't you smell the scent of the peaches in the one painting, and the roses in the other? Don't you want to pick one of the grapes and let its sweet juice tickle your mouth as you eat it?


When our grandmother died in January of 2001 and it was decided that my Mum and her brother would be selling the house, emptying it was a monumental task, which took our family almost a year. Among many other things (such as the furniture that is now in my living room - as you can see here -, or the cream china with the gold rim I eat off every day), the two paintings were given to me.
I was very happy to have them, and they were on the wall in our Third Room until my late husband decided to redecorate the flat in October 2009. He washed the last paint off his paint brushes on the morning of the day of his death. I never put the pictures back up, and they remained in the cellar where he had stored them before redecorating.

Last week, our relatives from France came visiting - I mentioned that in my previous post. My cousins spent many a summer holiday at our grandparents' house when they were children, and they, too, have fond memories of the place. Only now, during this visit, I learnt from my cousin that he and his siblings had not known about the sale of the house and distribution of its contents - their father had, sadly, not told them anything. Therefore, neither of my cousins received any tangible memory after our grandmother died. This touched me very much, and I instantly thought of those paintings.
When we were back at my place an hour or so later, I offered them to my cousins. At first, they did not want to take them, although I could tell they loved them; they ended up taking the paintings when they came to say good-bye the next day. My cousin said he already knows exactly where they will go at their house, and he has promised to send me a picture.

I feel better for having done this; the paintings still remain in the family, and I already have so much from my grandparents, and they had nothing.

The last picture shows the full moon, seen from my kitchen window on Saturday night.
Happy New Year to everyone!

Friday, 28 December 2012

Post # 400: Guest Post With Recipe

It's been a while since my Mum's last guestpost here, and since several of you were asking for the recipe for my Dad's spuds salad and I was nearing the 400th post of my blog, I find it only fitting that this post combines both - another guest post by my Mum and my Dad's recipe :-)
By the way, I didn't even have to ask for it - my Mum read your comments and my replies to them, wrote up the guest post and the recipe and sent it to me yesterday afternoon, shortly before our relatives arrived.
And now, without further ado, I am handing over to my Mum:

"Now Christmas is over, but we expect some more relations from Paris/France today, three teenagers and three adults. We haven't seen them for ages, the one boy I even do not know yet. So I am looking forward to our getting together, and my daughters both as well, I guess.
I want to thank all those who admired my table-setting, our Christmas tree and also those of you who bought socks and hats from my Etsy shop this year!
I read that some of Meike's followers are very interested in the potato salad my husband makes. So I will show you the recipe now here. It is a bit difficult to write up the recipe, because he never takes any measures or scales, he "feels" the right quantities. But I'll try for you:

1 kg of hard-boiling potatoes, the best over here are coming from northern Germany from the heath landscape with sandy soil
1 onion, minced in smal cubes
1 cup of hot broth

1 teaspoon salt
4 tablespoons neutral-tasting oil (sunflower or something, NOT olive oil)
2 tablespoons vinegar (not balsamico, better from wine or apples)
some freshly ground pepper
a pinch of sugar

Boil the potatoes, peel them and let them sit to cool. Cover the bowl, so that the potatoes don't get hard on the surface. You best do this in the morning if you need the salad for the evening.
Cut the potatoes into thin slices and spice them. Then pour the broth over them. The potatoes will absorb the broth entirely. Then add the oil and vinegar to it, and last the minced onion. 

The salad has to rest now for at least an hour, better two, not too cold, never in the fridge!

And now I wish you all a very happy New Year, good health to everyone, good luck, 365 good days!



Those flowers are called here "Christrosen", they only blossom at wintertime. In our garden we have a lot of them, and amazingly, there were bees flying around, in the month of December!!! We have temperatures like spring-time now. And the smaller flowers in the bowl are called "Schneeheide", that means "snow-heather", we also have a lot of them, so I could make this bunch for decorating my brunch table on boxing day."


- - - End of guest post - - -

Thank you very much, Mum & Dad, for sharing the recipe!
One question from me: do you stir the spuds every time you add something to the mix, or do you just let it rest and only stir it after an hour or so? 

As for the relatives visiting, I had never seen my cousin's son before; he was born in 1998, and I had last seen my cousin in 1985 or so. My other cousin, his wife and their two daughters had been here 8 years ago for my Mum's 60th birthday. Now the little girls from back then are young ladies wih trendy finger nails :-) It was lovely to see them again, and I think for my Mum, it was something of a Christmas wish come true. On Christmas Eve, she had been talking about wanting to see her family, and a day or two later, they rang and said they were coming over for a few days.
I am not sure yet what is on the cards today, but I think we'll all meet up again later.

Thursday, 27 December 2012

Read in 2012 - 45: Christmas at Valley Rise

Another free ebook from the Amazon Kindle store, I downloaded this one because a) it was free and b) I was in the mood for a christmassy read, and this one sounded cosy without much challenge, just what I wanted. And on both accounts (cosiness & not challenging), I was not disappointed.
The Moss family are rich and famous; almost all of them are active musicians and travel around the world most of the time. But they all come together to the farm house at Valley Rise to celebrate Christmas - a large group of people of all ages.

As most families, the Moss' are not without problems: there is the new wife of a widowed father who is not accepted by his grown-up son; a young woman who always had her future neatly mapped out in front of her suddenly begins to think there might be something else waiting for her; a single mother finds her job both challenging and rewarding at the same time, and is too proud to accept anyone's help; and there is a romance between one of the Moss boys with the girl living at the caretaker's cottage.
That romance began very promising on Thanksgiving, but now, several weeks later, when the two of them meet again for the first time since that one kiss they shared, they are both unsure of their mutual feelings, and behave rather awkwardly.

These two young people are the main characters of this short book (172 pages, it says on the product page at Amazon), and a lot of space is dedicated to the emails they send to each other.

The general atmosphere of the place is depicted nicely, the family members are unique characters (although many of them are not described at depth, since the book is so short), and all ends well - as expected.

So, if you want obstacles for the romantic hero and heroine to overcome, if you like mystery and secrets, or if you have a thing for character development, this is not the book for you.
But if you are only looking for a cosy, light read before falling asleep at night, something that does not hold your attention overly long or challenges your mind, then I think you will like this one.

The author, Karen Welch, has written several installments about the Moss family at Valley Rise, but I doubt I'll be looking into them anytime soon.

By the way - this is my 399th post!

Wednesday, 26 December 2012

Merry Christmas Indeed!

Christmas is probably for most people the most traditional celebration of the year, when they try to recapture some of what Christmas felt like when they were children. It is no different for me, and I am very glad that my parents keep sticking to the traditional way of decorating the Christmas tree (with real candles instead of electric ones) and to the traditional Christmas Eve dinner of spuds salad and Wiener sausages (that was traditional already for them, when they were children).

The sideboard in my living room looked like this on the 24th:

Here are some pictures to give you an incling of the atmosphere of Christmas Eve over here:
The parcels I had prepared to take over to my parents'.

The dinner table all ready for us to enjoy my Dad's home made spuds salad.

The tree, decorated in the afternoon by my Mum and my sister. I was too lazy to help and came over only when it was time for dinner and presents :-)

My sister gave me these silver creoles.

On Christmas Day, I opened my presents from England - look at how much I got!!! (Actually, this shows all my presents combined, not just the ones from the family in England.) 

For a look at my Christmas posts from 2011 and 2010, click here and here. I wonder if any of you is going to spot the three presents that appear in this year's picture as well as in one of the previous two Christmases :-) 

Today, we were once again at my parents' for a large Christmas brunch and a board game afterwards, and tomorrow, we are expecting relatives who we have not seen in many years. I am very much looking forward to that, and hope that everyone had a Merry Christmas!

Monday, 24 December 2012

Merry Christmas, and a First!

Nothing puzzling about wishing everyone who reads this Merry Christmas, but what is the "First"?

This:

A picture of my sister! It is the first time she's given her permission to me showing a photo on my blog with her on it. I am really glad she allowed me to use this one, as it gives such a good impression of how I used to feel about Christmas when I was a kid (and still do!).
On that Christmas Eve in 1973, I was five years old with three months to go until I'd be six, and my sister was six, almost seven.
Our parents really didn't have much money to spend on presents that year, but we were never made to realise that and were truly happy about the dolls (and, undoubtedly, many other things we got). 

There's a funny story connected with those dolls:
We had moved to this place only about a year before, and at our former home, my sister and I had been attending kindergarten together. We had made friends there, and, as children are intrigued by anything out of the ordinary, were particularly fond of two girls who were identical twins. For us, it had been for the first time in our lives to come across twins, and we were deeply impressed.
The names of the two sisters were Marion and Martina, and that were the names we gave our dolls. Mine was the blonde one, Martina, and my sister's the brunette one, Marion.

Here is a picture of the group of children we were friends with back then (this was taken in 1971 or 1972, I guess), with the twins on it.


(Before anyone wonders: no, I did not ask for permission to show this picture from any of those on it, but since I don't know who some of them are, not even their names, and none of them will be recognisable more than 40 years later, I assume nobody is going to cause any trouble over it.)

That is not the end of the story, though:
Some months ago, completely out of the blue I received an email from - Marion!!!
She had stumbled across my blog while searching for information about her home village, which is mentioned here in one of my mum's guest posts. Marion was by no means sure she was writing to the right person, but she was! Many emails have gone back and forth since then, and I am glad my blog served to get such old friends from long ago back in touch again :-)

I am, in fact, going to send an email to Marion now, wishing her and her family 

Merry Christmas!

And the same to you, dear readers!

Sunday, 23 December 2012

Hours of Fun!

That's precisely what was had by all who were there at my place on Friday night.

About the regular evenings with my friends I have written before; several years ago, we have started to have the December meeting at one of our houses instead of going to a restaurant, and make it an evening with games. The most important game of that particular evening is the swapping of trash gifts. Yes, you read that right: trash gifts.
Think of the numerous things everyone has at their home: the especially ugly vase given to you by Aunt Hilda for your wedding; the well-meant but never needed hot water bottle (your fifth one already); the vintage item you discovered at the jumble sale and thought you really had to have at the time; the decorative object that is so totally NOT your style but somehow never found its way into the bin... you get the idea, don't you? (I am sure Frances could come up with a list of scented candles, bath salts, diaries and lots more!)

Everyone chooses one of those things (it has to be clean and intact, no real rubbish) and wraps it up nicely as a Christmas present to bring along to the December meeting.
Once we're all settled and have had something to eat and drink, the fun begins:
Each of us places their own parcel in front of them on the table. A timer is set (10 minutes is plenty), and dice are thrown. The numbers rolled don't matter; with each rolling, the parcels are moved one place further on around the table, clockwise. When someone rolls a double, the rotation changes to anti-clockwise. When a double of six is rolled, the person whose turn it was gets to choose who to exchange their current parcel with. Of course nobody wants to end up with their own parcel, and you won't believe how hysterical we all get as the 10 minutes are drawing to a close, with everyone trying to move the parcels as quickly as possible!

Then the parcels are opened, and usually, much mirth ensues. Often, the "gifts" really ARE so ugly and/or useless the recipient is not going to keep it. But every time we play this, there is at least one of us who is really happy about what they find in their parcel. (I have just realised that I have already described the game here and here - the gift I ended up with in 2011 went to one of my Mum's friends, who truly loves it!)

Everything you need for Toast Hawaii.

The untoasted bread is buttered (or marged), the ham goes on it, then a slice of pineapple, and the hole is filled with ketchup.

One slice of cheese on top of each toast, and they go into the oven.

I never set a timer for these but simply take them out as soon as the cheese is melting, after an estimated 10 minutes.

The same food as last year - Toast Hawaii - was on the menue this time. There were only five of us, but as you can see, that did not diminuish the fun :-) 

Only five sets to prepare this year, and no Pukky to hang around the kitchen while I was making the toast :-(
The parcels waiting for us while we eat.
A vintage set for coffee and sugar! I really love it, this is no "trash" for me!
Two tiny snowglobes. Not sure yet what I'll do with them.
A game of Memory was played afterwards.
And now, I am looking forward to spending today mostly at home, and tomorrow night at my parents' for Christmas Eve.

Saturday, 22 December 2012

Read in 2012 - 44: The Shuttle

No, this is not a book about the space shuttle's history (and, sadly, it IS history now). When the author, Frances Hodgson Burnett, was born (in 1849), it was still over a 100 years until the first man would cross the threshold of our planet's atmosphere and actually reach space. No, the title refers to a weaving shuttle, and it is used to describe how travelling across the ocean between England and the US brought the two countries closer to each other, on a cultural level, with American heiresses marrying English aristocrats.

The book was first published in 1907, at a time when an estimated more than five hundred American women had married titled foreigners and some $220 million had gone with them to Europe. That money was badly needed, and used to renovate many a great house. This makes for a realistic background of the story, which centers around Bettina Vanderpoel, the beautiful, kind and intelligent daughter of an American multi-millionaire.

Her sister Rosalie, several years her senior, married Sir Nigel Anstruthers when Bettina was but a child. Right after the marriage, Rosalie finds out that her husband was ever only after her money, and when law restricts his access to that money, his plan of making his wife succumb to his authority includes cutting her off almost entirely from all contact with her own family. Rosalie's life turns into a miserable existence; she is not strong and intelligent enough to confront Nigel, and her family hear nothing from her for a long time.

Twelve years later, Bettina is old enough to finally put her plan into action: she had been suspecting from the start that Nigel was not going to be good to her older sister, and that her silence meant something bad was going on. She decided back then that one day she would find Rosalie and rescue her, and that she does.

How she does it, how she manages to turn not only Rosalie's life around but also that of the entire village where the Anstruthers have been ruling for centuries, and in the process, her own life as well, is described in much detail. It is mostly credible; the psychological war between Bettina and her brother-in-law; all that managing a great house with its vast gardens and village entails; the way others react to the changes made there; how she comes very close to almost losing not only the love of her life but even her own life - all that and much more is in this book, which was a delightful read, full of suspense (especially towards the end), and written in an elegant, descriptive style I very much enjoyed.

If there is one negative thing to say about the story, it is that the characters are so black and white. There is not one good molecule in all of Nigel Anstruthers, and not one shadow of a less-than-perfectly good trace in Bettina's character. Real people are not like that, but this did not take away my pleasure of reading this book, since the story in itself was credible enough.

There is some more info about the author here in another review I wrote about one of her books; it seems that American-British relationships are a recurring theme with Mrs. Burnett, who herself travelled back and forth between the two countries more than 30 times.