Wednesday 27 April 2016

Guest Post By My Mum: A Strange Coincidence

So far, all my Mum's guest posts have been immensely popular - most of them more so than my own posts ;-) So, here is another one for all of you who like reading them! (If you're new to my blog or wish to re-read an older guest post, simply click on the "Guest Post" label.)

A Strange Coincidence
The 14th of this month would have been my mother's 101st birthday. She died in 2001. Of course I was thinking of her the whole day; many experiences we had together, and my thoughts went back to my childhood, which was a very happy one.

After my father's death in 1989 things became a bit harder, she became blind, had mobility problems. and was often not in the best mood - you can imagine. Sometimes I was not as patient as I should have been, I confess, and I do regret this today very much, but we shared some really good  times.

On her birthday I was watching TV while I was knitting, and a documentary came up about a famous village in Switzerland called Zermatt.

I stopped knitting and watched attentively. The reason was that my mother and I made a trip together in the 1980s. Her great desire was always to travel by the Bernina-Express, a train travelling through beautiful landscape with great views of the Swiss mountains. So we booked 1 week, with a hotel in Zermatt at the foot of the Matterhorn. At that time, she could still see very well, only her legs were not the best, but sitting in a train was not too hard for her.

We stayed at a hotel with views of the Matterhorn. And the next morning my Mum woke me up with the words: "You must get up and have a look, please, wake up!"
My whole life I've been (and still am) a late sleeper, so I was a bit angry about this at 6 am while on holiday. But I rose anyway, and what I saw was really transcendental: 
The Matterhorn was shining in a gorgeous sunrise, the top was all pink and orange! We both were so impressed, we stood on the balcony of our room and did not speak a word, just watching in silence. 

The whole "performance" lasted only a few minutes, but I was thankful that my mother shared this magic moment with me, completely unforgettable.

I know that people come from far away to Zermatt to see this, and often enough they have to leave dissapointed, because the mountain top was in fog, clouds and mist all the time. To see it all pink is rather rare, we spent only one night there and were so lucky!!
As for the coincidence: Just on Mum's 101st birthday, they were showing this on TV, and they also showed the Matterhorn at sunrise! Tears came to my eyes when I remembered Easter 1985.
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When my Mum sent me her draft for this post, I felt tears welling up, too. I am so glad my Mum is still around, and we keep sharing so many good times - all our walks, family meals, outings, visits to fashion shows and so on! If you still have your parents, make sure you spend as much time with them as possible.
And Mum, I don't think you have anything to regret. You were looking after your Mum very well when she needed you, and losing your patience every now and then is only human and certainly understandable; I know what she could be like...! 

(Picture from www.zermatt.ch)

29 comments:

  1. What a lovely post and memory. I still have both my parents and amongst my friends am quite in the minority so do treasure that very much.

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    1. So you can be really happy, enjoy the time with them, and I wish you, that you will have them for a long time!

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    2. Same here, Karen - it's nice to know that we are similar in this!

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  2. This is a beautiful post and how wonderful that you saw something that sparked a memory of a happy special time with your mother on her birthday. My mother would have been 101 on February 16th of this year. She died in 1999. I miss her yet, but like you, I am blessed to have daughters with whom I am very close. I always love reading about things you do with Meike and her sister.

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    1. Dear Kristi, you are quite right, it is a great blessing for me, to spend time with my daughters and share a lot of wonderful experiences.

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    2. Kristi, yet another coincidence - your mother would have been 101 just like my Mum's mother, although not on the same day.
      I love reading about your family and the meetings and special occasions you share, too.

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  3. The picture is so amazing. I was just thinking the other day that I'd like to see Switzerland, but honestly before that, I would visit Ludwigsburg. The photos your daughter has posted are so wonderful. My mother would have been 103 this year. She died far too young at 59. It's sad losing our mums no matter what age we are. Thanks for posting, and come by often!

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    1. Oh Nan, how nice of you to say you'd come to Ludwigsburg before Switzerland! You know I am not just saying it when I tell you that you'd be most welcome here anytime.

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    2. Thank you! Who knows, maybe it will happen someday - around Christmastime!

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    3. That would be wonderful!!

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  4. Beautiful memory! Cherish your Mom, they leave us too soon.

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    1. I do - I know how lucky I am!

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    2. Thank you for your kind comment!

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  5. What a great post! A memory like the one you shared is to be treasured, and what a wonderful coincidence on your mother's birthday. ♡

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    1. Thank you, Jennifer. I am sure my Mum will have another look at the latest comments again tonight or tomorrow morning.

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    2. Thank you, Jennifer, for your kind comment, and yes, the coincidence was really amazing!

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  6. A very beautiful and human post, thank you...

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    1. I thought it a great idea of my Mum's to share this with us. Glad to see you think the same.

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    2. Thank you for your kind comment. I am always a bit unsure about being interesting enough with my posts, but Meike encourages me.

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  7. Meike's Mum I always think that one of the criteria for a post is whether it makes readers think or brings back a memory (there are many others of course). I read your post about 40 minutes ago and couldn't type a response because of the tears in my eyes. Since then I have been wandering around memories of my own parents (very happy times) and, oddly, thinking of the railway in the Alps which was built before there was an engine capable of travelling on it. I think that makes it a very interesting as well as an emotionally poignant post. Thank you.

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    1. Thank you very much for your kind comment and statement, so I hope my posts will make some people think.

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    2. Graham, your comment must be one of the - if not THE - most touching comments that have so far appeared on my blog. Thank you!

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  8. Oh, as a travel agent, I often saw photos of the Matterhorn and so very much wanted to visit there! To see this photo of it all lit up in orange and pink at sunrise...why, it is as if I had been there myself! What a great story by Meike's Mum. Thanks very much for sharing it.

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    1. I knew you - and probably most of my readers - would like it, it is just such a good and touching story, especially because it is a true one.

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    2. Thank you for your kind comment. I know, that people even come from Japan to view this gorgeous spectacle.

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  9. A year younger than your grandmother, Meike, or my mother, you might enjoy reading about these 100 year old twins sisters:
    http://www.today.com/news/100-year-old-twins-share-unbreakable-bond-we-ve-never-t88931

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    1. Thank you for the link, Kristi, I am going to go there in a minute!

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  10. That was a very moving post. Such a lovely memory for your mother to hold close and for her to share with you.

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