Friday, 15 November 2024

First Full Week in November

Last week was very November-ish with cold temperatures, cloudy skies and fog, but we saw some sun during the week, and Saturday was glorious.


My journey home from Offenburg on Monday (4 November) was uneventful. I spent the day working from home, interrupting at lunch time for a 25-minute back and shoulder massage at the nearby day spa. 

After work, my sister and I met at our Mum's for a delicious traditional Swabian soup, just the kind of comfort food one wants on a dark, cold November evening. There were a few little jobs to do, such as putting summer dresses up into the attic space and bringing down winter coats and knit dresses.

Tuesday (5 November) was the 15th anniversary of my husband's death. Of course I still think of him often and wonder what he would have said to current events - the US presidential election, and then on the same day the crash of our government here in Germany. Strange times, like something out of a film script.

The morning was cold at 3C/37F and foggy, but once the fog lifted, the sun came out, enticing me to take a good chunk of the afternoon out from my work day (I had no meetings lined up, luckily) and walk to Benningen. 

Sunset over the fields between Freiberg and Benningen

Back home after dark, I put in another couple of hours of work, finishing at 7:30 pm when my tummy told me it was definitely time to get something to eat.

On both Wednesday and Thursday (6 and 7 November) I worked all day at the office with no chance for a walk. On Thursday, I popped in at my Mum's, bringing her a little something I had spotted while shopping for groceries: My Mum's favourite brand of chocolates, only available in the colder half of the year. It had just arrived back on the shelves, and so I got a box for her.

Friday (November 8) was grey and cold enough for me not to mind too much that once again I didn't have time for a walk. After work, I got everything ready for the weekend, and O.K. arrived at around 20 to 9:00 pm. 

I had prepared Shakshouka, another dish I enjoy particularly on a cold dark evening, and I must say the Merlot went with it very nicely.

The sunny Saturday (November 9) saw us browsing the shops (and finding most of the Christmas presents I want to give this year) before we stopped for a snack on the market square, where the farmers' market was just packing up. Across the road to the palace grounds was next, where we caught the last of the afternoon sunshine, before leisurely making our way back home.




No trick - the sky really WAS this incredible sapphire blue that afternoon!






A (kind of) shepherd's pie seemed to be a good choice for food that evening:

The weather reverted to grey, cold, wet and foggy on Sunday (November 10), but we still went out for a walk in the afternoon, at least for about an hour.

Later, we met up with my sister and walked into town with her. My Mum had given us tickets for a guitar concert at Ludwigsburg's Friedenskirche ("Church of Peace"), which I have shown you on my blog before, for instance here.



The guitarist (his name is Volker Luft - it really was just the one man with his acoustic guitar) has been an acquaintance of my Mum's for many years. Originally, my Mum wanted him to play at her 80th birthday in August, but he was away at the time. Now we sat back and enjoyed his music for about 1 1/2 hours. Every piece was introduced with a poem and a short explanation by the guitarist. Some were his own compositions, but there were also some well-known pieces I remember having once learned to play on the piano or the guitar myself. The concert was called "Saitenpoesie", roughly translating into "poetry on strings".

Volker Luft's website is here. It is all in German, but if you scroll down a little, you will find two videos and a link to more videos - you won't need to understand German for them.

The concert was beautiful, but I must admit no matter how warmly we were all dressed, we felt cold after sitting still for such a long time in the large unheated church. Therefore, we didn't hang around for long after the end of the concert. 

My Mum went on with her friends to a restaurant where they had booked a table, while O.K., my sister and I walked across town centre, briefly stopping at the square where Ludwigsburg's synagogue once stood. In remembrance of the terrible events of the Reichskristallnacht (please look it up if you don't know the term) and the horror that followed, and the impact it all still has today, a gathering was taking place there, with speeches and music. We listened for a bit, but we really were cold through and through (and getting hungry as well), and so we moved on.

Not many restaurants and other places to eat are open in my town on a Sunday evening, but you can always count on "my" Irish Pub - and that's where we ended up, having our meals and drinks before walking home.

I was quite glad to change into cosy home wear, but O.K. had to pack and face the long drive home. All went well, though, and he arrived at his cottage 1 1/2 hours after he'd left my place.

16 comments:

  1. I've been wearing my winter coat and mittens lately as it has been so chilly here too, Meike. I had to Google the recipe for Shakshouka and I wonder if you dip bread or something into it? It looks a bit like chili with eggs on top. I'm glad you had a sunny Saturday to enjoy a nice walk under those lovely blue skies. I'm jealous that you have lots of Christmas shopping done as I've only just begun.

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    1. Ellen, this particular dish has appeared on my blog at various times. The best photo I have of it is on this post from 2018:
      https://librarianwithsecrets.blogspot.com/2018/12/home-alone.html
      Yes, we do dip bread in it, and we don't eat it from individual plates but simply put the cooking pan on the table, with the two of us eating straight from the pan.
      As for Christmas shopping, there is not much for me to do, really - only my Mum, my sister and of course O.K. get something from me. There are no children to shop for, and several family members and friends are no longer with us.
      We have agreed not to exchange parcels with the family in the UK anymore, because since Brexit, it has become really difficult to send or receive anything between our two countries.

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  2. The palace grounds still look quite colourful in your photos here :) - Love that photo of the little gatehouse (or whatever it is) with the stairs and the flowers in front.

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    1. Thank you, Monica, I loved that view of the small building (it's a folly and has no real function other than probably storage for gardening tools) and the flowers on the stairs, too. That side garden, fenced off by the main grounds, is one off my favourite parts of the entire palace grounds.

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  3. I did click onto the guitarist's website. It showed a button asking if I wanted it translated, so I did! He is very good, that must have been a treat. Your kind of shepherd's pie looks good to me!

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    1. Thank you, Kay! I had not seen that "tranlsate" button, but it's good to know it is there :-)
      The kind of shepherd's pie was alright; usually when I make it (which is rarely enough) I make sure to make the mashed spuds thicker, and this time it wasn't quite as thick as I wanted it to be, but it still formed a sort of lid over the minced meat and onions underneath.

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  4. I've been taking advantage of the few bright days in among the gloomy damp ones. I wonder why churches are always so cold?

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    1. Well, apparently this one usually isn't - but we later learned that the heating wasn't working, and because the system is so old, only two people in all of this part of Germany still know how to repair it, and they weren't at hand before the concert.

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  5. I think you've had better weather than we've had here. I don't remember a day within the past week with that kind of blue sky! (Then again, I was inside most of the time. I really DO need to follow your model and go for a walk in the middle of the day.)

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    1. It‘s been rare enough here, too, to see blue sky.
      Daylight, even 15 minutes on a dull day, is so important for our health - it gives off more lux than a whole day under artificial lights.

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  6. A nice leisurely blogpost, recording how November began for you. As usual, helpful accompanying images. I had forgotten - or maybe I never knew - that Steve's unexpected death happened on November 5th. In his boyhood it would have been a very special day for him with bonfires, fireworks and Bonfire Night treats like toffee apples, Yorkshire parkin and baked potatoes. Fifteen years is a long time but I sense that for you it was like yesterday. Sometimes the claim, "I will always love you" is very true.

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    1. I remember how much I enjoyed your description of Bonfire Night in The Headland, Neil. Yes, 15 years is a long time, and my life looked very different back then. It wasn‘t all rosy, and I am glad to say that in spite of this scar in my life that will never go away completely I am happy in my life as it is now.

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  7. I didn't know about your government crashing on election day--what happened?

    Fifteen years. It's so sad that your husband died so young. I'm glad you've been able to move forward and make a happy life for yourself despite such a tragedy. I'm sure it wasn't easy.

    Wishing you a good week, my friend. :)

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    1. Thank you, Jennifer. You are right, it wasn't easy, but I was young enough to pick myself up and see that I still had (most likely) another big chunk of my life waiting for me.

      The German Government has been consisting of a coalition that has never been easy-going. They have been bickering for ages, and that's only what the public know - I guess a lot more has been going on behind the scenes.
      Anyway, not long ago, our Finance Minister suggested a course nobody outside his party could fully suppport, and he was not willing to even talk about a compromise. At first, it was only this one minister who stepped down (or had to step down). But the other ministers and important functionaries from the same party followed suit, practically bringing the entire government down like a house of cards.
      It took a while to even settle on a date for new elections, but I think Feb. 23, 2025, has now been confirmed.

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  8. I have always loved the run-up to Christmas in Germany. I am convinced that Germans do it best of anyone in the world! I have mixed feelings about zoos too, but I would have been thrilled at that light show. It looked so imaginative. I haven't been looking at the news since before Trump won so I am sorry but I didn't know about the collapse of the German government. I don't suppose it did me any harm not going, or any good to know, but I have been thinking hard about this issue. Thank you for the link to Volker Luft's website - the Spanish piece particularly appealed to me as we hope to go to Madrid just before Christmas.
    It always makes me smile how surprised I am when people actually do supposedly "typical" things of their country, like Spanish people playing guitars in the street.

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    1. I love Advent and Christmas, it is a mix of fond memories from my childhood and traditions I have created much later for myself, such as the annual Secret Santa with my girl friends, which is coming up next week Friday.
      Thank you for having looked at Volker Luft's website! It is nice that his Spanish piece is particularly fitting for you right now.

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