„Speak Easy“ by Barry Gibbons
was a truly delightful non-fiction read that I felt myself looking
forward to when I knew I was going to have a chance to read a few chapters on my kindle
during my trips to and from work.
Like “Healthy Heart”, which I
have recently read and reviewed here , it is part of the
“Infinite Ideas” series and came to me in the shape of a free download
from Amazon’s kindle store.
The topic is public speaking,
something many people find scary and avoid as much as possible. For
others, it is part of their working life, or they simply enjoy speaking
at occasions such as weddings and anniversaries.
No matter whether the reader is an experienced speaker, has been given
the task to give a full business report to Senior Management for the
first time, or has been approached by a friend who wants someone to
“just say a few words” at some social gathering
or other, they will benefit from the 52 ideas presented in this book.
I found myself grinning more
than once, and recognized similar experiences (not as a speaker, but as
part of an audience) to the ones described.
Public speaking is not rocket
science, but there are some dos and don’ts – and they are not always
the same for every occasion, and certainly not for every audience in
every country. Therefore, good advice by someone
who knows what they’re doing (and has been doing it for a long time),
advice that is presented soundly and with humour, can only be useful.
Although I do rarely speak in
front of groups (and even rarer are those groups larger than 20), and usually only to introduce someone
else, I know I am going to apply those bits that fit my situation.
If Barry Gibbons’ other books
are as entertaining as this one, it will certainly be worth looking for
them, especially his (as far as I know) latest one, published in 2013:
“Pushing Doors Marked Pull”, subheadline “An
Unlikely Life in Three Parts” (love the title!). Here is an excerpt of the blurb I found
on the “Infinite Ideas” website:
In the first part of the book we meet Barry as a directionless teen in Manchester during the early 1960s. Although the swinging sixties seem to largely bypass him a world is opening up to his generation, and he is not going to miss out. Part two catches up with Barry two decades later [...]. As chairman of Burger King Barry introduces us to the life of a corporate rock-star [...] as well as the fish-out of water trials of a Mancunian in Miami. In the final part of the book, he navigates his way through the trials of cancer [and] begins to ponder what it is that determines his chances of survival. Is it luck, genetics, medical science or something else – does he have his own unique collection of traits that could make the crucial difference?
In the first part of the book we meet Barry as a directionless teen in Manchester during the early 1960s. Although the swinging sixties seem to largely bypass him a world is opening up to his generation, and he is not going to miss out. Part two catches up with Barry two decades later [...]. As chairman of Burger King Barry introduces us to the life of a corporate rock-star [...] as well as the fish-out of water trials of a Mancunian in Miami. In the final part of the book, he navigates his way through the trials of cancer [and] begins to ponder what it is that determines his chances of survival. Is it luck, genetics, medical science or something else – does he have his own unique collection of traits that could make the crucial difference?
This sounds interesting to me...At one point in my life - more than twenty years ago - I gave talks to garden clubs and similar groups. I actually enjoyed it, though I am normally rather shy. I'd enjoy reading the tips this man has to offer.
ReplyDeleteApart from them being very useful tips, it really is an entertaining read. Here is an example of the kind of humour he expresses (quoting freely here, not literally): "Some speakers are pre-copernican - they think the universe revolves around them."
DeleteNot free any more, I see! :) ... I've never been exactly afraid to speak in public, even if never really longing for big audiences either. Besides school, I got rather used to it over the years I was active in church(es). I think for me it depends partly on the context, and a lot on if I think I have something to say!
ReplyDeleteSame here, Monica. When I know exactly what is expected from me, why am I here and why do these people want me to speak to them, it's easy.
DeleteI compare it a bit to dancing - sometimes RJ and I are the only couple on a dance floor, but when I know the song and it is a dance I have practised well (and RJ promises me not to suddenly introduce a new figure!), I rather enjoy it (I know - I am such a show-off sometimes!).