In my previous post, for Saturday I mentioned that my sister had given me a concert ticket for Christmas, and that she also had a surprise in store for me. It wasn't the concert as such, as I knew that, but it was who else was there.
So, last Saturday (18 January), I walked to Kullman's Diner opposite the train station, where my sister had suggested we grab a bite to eat before travelling into Stuttgart. On my own, I would not have eaten at that time, but it is always nice to share a meal, and since the concert was her present to me, I went along with her suggestion.
Rounding the corner to the entrance of Kullman's, I saw my sister standing there already... but she was not alone: Our two best friends from when we were six and seven years old were there as well, all three ladies grinning at me from ear to ear!
Let me quote from my own post about what was an important event for us in October of 2023:
"When my sister and I were seven and six years old, we moved into the middle of three terraced houses here in Ludwigsburg. Next door were two sisters our age. The four of us became inseparable - we went to school together and spent most of our free time as a foursome.
In our late teens, a rift went through our small, tight-knit group. I won't go into detail; let it suffice to say that while I kept in touch more or less regularly with one of the sisters, everyone went their seperate ways. This kind of thing sometimes happens when childhood friends go to uni, start work, have partners and start their own families.
When [in 2022] first our Dad and two weeks later their Mum died [...], and was soon followed by my sister's best friend R, the idea of a reunion of the four of us was born.
It took us a year to make it come true, and so on that Sunday, my sister and I drove to a small town nearby where one sister lives with her family (the other one lives in Switzerland).
There was not a single moment of awkwardness, but instead, we picked up the threads that had been resting (in my sister's case) for over 30 years, as if no time had passed. We still share the same sense of humour and there were many laugh-out-loud moments, but we were also able to talk serious stuff such as the deaths we'd had to cope with."
So, imagine my surprise and delight to see the other half of our quartet! I guessed instantly that this couldn't be a coincidence, which was of course confirmed.
We had our meal at Cullman's and then boarded a local train to Stuttgart, followed by a short trip on the city tram to the concert venue.
The band was Heaven 17 - probably familiar to those of you who, like us, were teenagers in the 1980s. While we loved their music back then and had several albums and 7'' versions (all on vinyl, of course - this was well before CDs or online platforms), the band never performed live until well into the 1990s, by which time we weren't listening to them much anymore.
Not my picture; I nicked it from the ticket vendor's website. |
Like many other New Wave / synth pop bands during that decade, Heaven 17 were from the North of England - from Sheffield (Yorkshire) to be precise, home of our esteemed blogging friend Neil a.k.a. Yorkshire Pudding.
On the way to the concert, the four of us kept speculating who from the old days we might spot there, and indeed we ran into someone from the old clique. He had not changed much and was easy to recognise, but when four tall ladies all of a sudden were towering over him, calling out his name, he was quite overwhelmed and at first could only stare and stammer "Ludwigsburg?!" :-D
We got drinks and positioned ourselves in the audience (standing space only) so that we would be able to see everything on stage and have the full benefit of the sound system without it being one-sided.
The concert started, and we loved every minute!! Glenn Gregory was entertaining and seemed very much down to earth, really engaging with the audience. His way of talking reminded me a lot of my late husband (who wasn't from Sheffield but from near Barnsley, but his choice of words and sense of humour were very similar).
Martyn Ware didn't say much but made up for it with his flamboyant outfit. The lady at the other keyboard and the two background singers were as beautiful as they were brilliant.
All the old favourites were played*, and then some. The mood was great, the audience being totally "there" from start to finish, and we kept demanding more until the band ended up to give us five extra songs - and all that in spite of Glenn having a chest infection and being on antibiotics. Twice, he played only an acoustic guitar and sung unaccompanied. There were also tracks by The Human Leage (of course written by Martyn, who was a founding member of that other great band from Sheffield) and by David Bowie, whom Glenn cited as a big influence on his musical career.
Afterwards, we took the tram and the local train back to Ludwigsburg, where we chatted for a little until the husband of one of our friends arrived. We said our good-byes and all agreed that it had been a GREAT night out! Had anyone told us in our teens that 40 years later, the four of us would attend a Heaven 17 gig and meet R.B. from the old gang, we wouldn't have believed them!
Meike's sister: It was a great night out and I enjoyed every second of it. By the way, the place we met is called Kullman's.
ReplyDeleteThanks, sis! Error amended.
DeleteThat really was a lovely surprise and all organised in secret for your delight! I am not familiar with Heaven 17 music because I was not a teenager in the 1980s but I have heard of them. I am glad you were able to see the band play again and the lovely added part to the evening of seeing your old friends again and all picking up where you left off.
ReplyDeleteYes, it was lovely to see them again and there was no strangeness between us. Of course one topic we were talking about was politics, with our general election just a month away. Even though we lead very different lives and have not spent any significant amount of time together since our youth, we have discovered that we have very similar political views and are going to give our votes to the same party. I suppose deeply ingrained values and things that you had in common during your formative years don't change much, if at all.
DeleteThat, Meike, was a very heart-warming post. After it became obvious that my two-year stint on Lewis wasn't going to end after we'd been here 5 years most of my old school friends had dropped away and the ones who didn't have now died. So my 'old friends' now are largely the ones who came here at the same time as I did in the mid-seventies and, like me, have never left. I hope that you have many more reunions.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Graham, we hope that, too. One plan is for the four of us to meet at my Mum‘s. Growing up so close together, we knew each other‘s mothers very well.
DeleteWhat a wonderful sister you have to arrange such a surprise for you! Glad you had such a great time with old friends and old music. I have never heard of Heaven 17 though!
ReplyDeleteI do indeed have a wonderful sister, Ellen. She often has great ideas to surprise me with for birthday or Christmas presents, such as one birthday when we were in Ripon and she had secretly arranged a visit at Markenfield Hall.
DeleteWhat a wonderful gift, to rekindle old friendships! To top it off with the concert, that was like a cherry on top! 🍒 I will go back and listen to the videos now. I've never heard Heaven 17!
ReplyDeleteIt was a perfect night out, all went well - for a change, not even the local trains let us down! 😅
DeleteI can't recall ever having heard of Heaven 17, but sounds like a good night out for the four of you! I'm not in touch with anyone from my birth town any more (childhood/teens), but still ("more or less") with several friends I got to know between 20-30, when living in Karlstad. One couple I had not met in 38 years stopped by for a short "surprise" visit last summer and it wasn't hard at all to just "pick up the thread" again.
ReplyDeleteI remember you posting about that surprise visit, Monica. It is great when one can instantly reconnect with old friends, even after not having met for many years. It was like that with two friends from Librarian School, where we went from 1986 to 1988.
DeleteI don't think I've ever heard of Heaven 17, but what an awesome surprise for you, with the old friends being the icing on the cake! What a great gift. :)
ReplyDeleteThe best kind of gift, Jennifer!
DeleteIt's nice to learn that I am "esteemed". The one and only time I ever saw Heaven 17 was as 1999 turned into 2000. Sheffield city centre was sealed off for the Millennium Party and Heaven 17 appeared on stage. Hell, that was quarter of a century ago! It's so good that the four of you were able to get together again as the years fell away like scales. You should organise a girls weekend - booking an AirBnb in a convenient location later this year.
ReplyDeleteOf course you are esteemed, and highly so!
DeleteYou have mentioned that Phil Oakey lives not far from you. Do Glenn Gregory and Martyn Ware also live close by? I imagine all these musicians from the 80s, all kore or less the same age, roaming the streets of Sheffield (and Manchester, where I think quite a few were from, too).
I don't know where Glenn Gregory and Martyn Ware live but Phil Oakey still lives about forty yards from us. Have you ever heard of Richard Hawley? He lives in our neighbourhood too.
DeleteNo, I've not heard of Richard Hawley. I have just looked him up on Wikipedia, he seems to have been working with just about everyone, and was born the same year as my sister and O.K.
DeleteWhat a fun time with old friends. You are lucky to have such a good sister. Cali
ReplyDeleteThanks, Cali! I know I am lucky :-)
DeleteWhat a brilliant surprise! It is a real bonus as time goes on to find people you feel completely at home with. We recently connected with someone I actually used to look after when he was a little boy - I was a friend of his mum's! Now he has children of his own. And it was delightful to feel that he was almost like a member of the family - still the same easy-to-get-along-with character that he had been as a child. I'm glad you enjoyed the concert. I didn't know Heaven 17 but I looked them up on Youtube and the first song that came up had German subtitles. (I don't know why). Were they particularly popular in Germany I wonder?
ReplyDeleteThey weren't particularly popular in Germany, no. They had several top hits in the UK in the early 80s, their most successful one being "Tempation". The band also participated in Band Aid in 1984, and some of their albums were highly successful in the UK. If you weren't into synth pop / New Wave music in the 1980s, that would explain why you didn't know them.
DeleteA lovely experience for you to meet again with the man you looked after when he was little!