Saturday 13 March 2021

A Week of Firsts

This week's motto for me is "Firsts", and I will show you why.

Nothing out of the ordinary on Monday; it was cold but sunny, and I managed to put in a 1.5 hour walk between work and an online conference in the early evening.

On Tuesday, I was up bright and early on my way to the eye clinic in Stuttgart, where my eyes were thoroughly examined and we planned my operations. 

Contrary to my regular doctor's suggestion, the clinic are not willing to operate both eyes at the same time. Now I have two dates; June 16 for my left eye and July 13 for the right one. In between, I probably won't be able to work - it depends on how my brain can cope with the big difference between the eye with the new (artificial) lense and the yet-to-be operated eye. 

Right now, my shortsightedness is at about -14 (left) and -9 (right); already a big difference, making it hard to focus properly and judge perspective. With the left eye at around -2 after the operation, but the right one still at -9, the difference will be even bigger. We'll see! (in the true sense of the word.)

After both my eyes have new lenses, I will of course need new specs. Glasses are usually not ready within a day or two, so it will take some more time before I shall be able to work again. Well, it is what it is, and I have told my clients so that they know what to expect from me (or not) over the summer.

The first "first" of this week was on Wednesday: The group of volunteers I am part of had our first meeting (online, of course) with our town's Mayor. We are working towards improving the overall situation at and around our train station, which is a disgrace, to put it mildly. The meeting was constructive and pleasant; now we hope that at least some of what Mr. Knecht promised will come true.

On Thursday, I went to my parents for my lunch break. As usual - definitely not a first! - my Mum had prepared delicious food for us; home-made mashed potatoes, Sauerkraut and Schäufele (that's the name of the meat you see in the picture).

But there was a first later that same day: For our after-work walk, for the first time in many months, my sister and I were able to visit the palace grounds again! They are now open for the public with certain restrictions as to the maximum number of people allowed, leaving your contact data at the entrance and wearing a mask throughout (which is not strictly necessary out in the open, but that is their rule and so we stick to it - we're just happy that we can go there again!).

They are getting everything ready for the proper opening of the season on March 19. As you can see, work at the temporary flower beds is in full swing. It will no doubt look very beautiful once it is finished; it always does, although to be honest I don't actually need all that - the palace and the gardens are wonderful enough anyway.


Friday brought another "First": I had my very first corona test! It was one of those quick tests where you learn the result after about 15 minutes. As expected, mine turned out negative. 

A one-way system has been established to get in and out of the testing venue. Usually, this is a popular beer garden right in the middle of town.

Getting closer. I decided to keep this picture, even though it shows a person I do not know and whose permission I have not asked - the young man in front of me is not recognisable anyway, especially not to my readers here.

I did this in view of the last "First" of this week: On Sunday, I am volunteering at one of the many venues dotted around town where people can vote for our federal state parliament. Two of the 16 federal states of Germany are holding elections this Sunday, and I have wanted to be part of an election for many years. The corona test was not required, but offered, and although I know I could still catch the virus in the time that passes between the test and Sunday, I decided to have it done anyway, even if it is just for my own feeling of safety.

Oh, and another sort-of first is that for the first time in months, O.K. and I are spending the weekend apart - with me being out all Sunday (and having to get up awfully early), it just makes no sense for him driving 150 km to be here only for the Saturday. Of course I miss him, but I will use the day to catch up on household things that I won't get round to doing tomorrow.

23 comments:

  1. This little baroque pavilion was bevor corona the place, where my reading ladies an I had our Christmas parties, always very atmospheric, with pretty decorations, real candles, christmas cookies, coffee and tea.
    So times are changing!

    Meikes Mom

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    1. Hopefully one day the pretty little building will host parties again.

      Also, the whole place was so different - normally, there are rows of beer benches and tables there in the summer, with families and groups of friends sitting together, chatting over their food and drinks. Now we were queuing, 2 m apart, all wearing masks, slowly moving forward.

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  2. Glad you are finally getting your eyes sorted. Remember how dismissive you were when some time ago I suggested that normal advice/procedure is to get one eye done at a time? You told me, in no uncertain terms, that you trusted your doctor not me (or, rather, what one of the most renowned eye specialists - mine - recommended). Never mind. And don't worry about your vision being out of sync. The brain adapts remarkably quickly, over night, and the stronger eye will take over, making your as yet not operated eye the "lazy" one.

    You'll be amazed when it's done. Nothing short of a miracle.

    U

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    1. Of course I remember that, Ursula. But seriously - would you rather trust a complete stranger over your own doctor who has known (and treated) you for years? Anyway, as you say - never mind. My doctor still thinks they could do both eyes at the same time, but in the end it is the clinic's decision.

      I can not yet imagine what it will be like - seeing better than I ever have since I was about 7 years old! You are right, it is a miralce, and I am most grateful for this opportunity.

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  3. As we say here Meike "you are a real busy bee" lately! Your 'firsts' all sound interesting and quite varied - definitely see you staying active in the days to come also.
    As for your surgeries, Bob and I are hoping so much that both go well, and I'm sure you have excellent doctors advising you. Eyes are so precious - hoping your vision will be greatly improved by mid-summer.
    Glad to know you have access to the palace and gardens again - walking with your sister must be really pleasant (I always wanted a sister however must say I got a great brother instead!).
    Meike, regarding your clients - are you self-employed or do you work for a company? Will there be someone else to fill in for you whilst you heal?

    Wishing you a good weekend dear friend - perhaps with some sunshine and warmer weather.
    Hugs - Mary

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    1. Thank you, dear Mary!
      Yes, it is good to have a sister, especially since we live close enough to see each other frequently.
      I am employed with a small consultancy firm; there are three of us working as consultants and one lady doing our financial stuff. We all have our own clients and do not cover for each other; the time needed to bring someone else up to date with all that's going on and needs doing (and how) would be longer than the time I am missing from work. It was similar in 2018 with my first eye OP; my clients knew well in advance and were prepared.

      A rapid mix of strong wind, rain and sunrays today, with a shortish walk before lunch time. Tomorrow, I will be busy with the election almost all day, so I don't really mind what the weather will do :-)

      Hugs
      Meike

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  4. Well you have certaainly been busy. Hope the eye ops go well.

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  5. It is good you have your dates set for your eye appointments. Gives you plenty of time to plan ahead. It is wonderful to get out and about for Spring walks and with COVID restrictions easing, more places will be open again. Hope it continues!! Enjoy!

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    1. I could have had the operations earlier, but wanted to give my clients (and myself) enough time to prepare.
      As for the easing of restrictions, I am in two minds - what is happening with infection numbers is rather alarming, and our vaccination campaign is going sooo slow.

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  6. What a busy week! I will certainly be keeping you in my thoughts for the coming eye surgeries. I can understand why they want to do them separately but it does drag it out for you unfortunately. By June you will have beautiful weather and will be able to hopefully enjoy some walks if your eyes allow it. Maybe you could also get some books on tape?

    How wonderful that the palace grounds were open again for you and your sister to visit! I hope your day goes well tomorrow working with the election! That will be a new and different experience for you.

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    1. To finally walk in the palace grounds again put me in a very cheerful, celebratory mood - I wanted to skip the entire length of the long path from the entrance towards the castle, and beyond!

      Depending on how hot this summer will be, I am going to enjoy my walks as soon as it is possible after the surgeries. Last summer, I often went out until sunset and after, when it was most pleasant to walk.

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  7. Oh my, I do hope that all goes well with both eye operations! Our vision is so very precious. Glad you got to finally go back to "your" Palace! Yes, I know you don't own it but much like I have my own monastery right here in Rockdale County, if love could make us owners of something, we would own them, right? (Does that make sense to you at all?)
    Your photo of the home cooked meal made by your Mum looks mouthwatering! Tell her I said so!!
    Good for you working to make things better in your neighborhood. Now, could you please come to our street? We could use good people like you.
    I always imagine your place as being pristine at all times, but I suppose that does not happen by magic but always from hard work by you! Take care!

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    1. Kay, I know exactly what you mean by that! You know I have "my" grassy paths and I even "own" many houses here in town - the true owners have no idea :-D
      My Mum has finally been able to comment on my blog again; for some reason, it would not work for a long time, no matter what we tried. And yesterday, she texted me to let me know she can comment again - see above. She will certainly read what you said about her home-cooked food.

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    2. Hello Kay, thank you for your compliment for my food. It's a very typical German meal, and we all like it very much.

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  8. Good to hear that your eye surgeries are scheduled. Your clients are fortunate that you considered their needs before your own. Hoping for successful outcomes.

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    1. Thank you, Mary! If it were really urgent, I would have opted for earlier surgery appointments. But in the end, I will have less stress, too, if I can prepare everything for my absence.

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  9. Darling Meike,

    This is a brave post. You speak with such reassuring confidence about the eye surgery which must, in reality, be a worry for you. we are certain all will be well and, drawing on our own experience of other surgeries, it is darkest before the dawn but, afterwards, it is so deeply exhilarating. We trust that all will go smoothly and well and that the future will look brighter than ever [please excuse the pun].

    The opening up of the grounds and the meal with your parents are small but so importantly significant in sensing that there is light at the end of this long dark tunnel in which we all find ourselves. A version of the German 'sauerkraut' is also very popular here in Hungary and we like it very much indeed.

    And, with all the volunteering activity you are planning too, your life is a whirlwind of activity at the moment. Take time to take care of yourself and enjoy rest when you can.

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    1. Dear Jane and Lance,

      I don't feel particularly brave, but I know from my 2018 operation that I am in very good hands at this clinic. Also, I have that implicit trust that all will be well, and of course I am looking forward to seeing better than I have ever since I was seven years old!

      Thankfully, I was able to see my parents all the time; when the pandemic first started, my sister and I would only meet them in front of the house. But once we established that we could meet indoors sitting well apart from each other, we took our weekly lunchtime meetings up again.
      If I remember correctly, when my Mum was a young wife, she learned to cook Szegedin Gulasch from a Hungarian lady, Auntie Peregovic, who was indeed from Szegeden (not sure about the spelling).

      The re-opening of the palace grounds was the best news I had this month!

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  10. Lovely that the palace grounds will be opening up again. Spring here took a step back here and so far even the snowdrops seem reluctant to open up. I guess they like me are wondering whether tonight will bring rain or snow. (The forecasts are very vague about it...) I'll go to sleep with my fingers crossed for plain rain rather than slush, as I have a dentist's appointment tomorrow a.m.!
    Wishing you all the best for your eye surgery. I'm shortsighted too and with one eye worse than the other - my worst more like your best, but I can imagine the sort of coordination difficulties involved before you get "everything" fixed.

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    1. Same here, Monica - we have sleety rain and snow forecast for much of this week, and right now, it is cold and raining. I don't mind so much today, as I won't have time for an after-work walk anyway, with another online conference scheduled with my volunteer group.
      I am just so glad there is so much that can be done today with eye problems such as ours!

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  11. It's always good to see the palace again. A new normality will return at some time and I just hope that we appreciate the things we have missed (including people) and are kinder to them in future. I use to be the Returning Officer (The office in charge of elections in Scotland) for the Western Isles at one time. There is something very enjoyable and satisfying about the process. I hope that you enjoy volunteering.

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    1. I did, Graham! It was a really good day, and I did not even mind getting up so much earlier than usual on a Sunday. There will be a post about it soon.
      As for the new normality, at the moment I am rather pessimistic, what with the vaccinating going even slower now in this country.

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